“The Pearl Principle – no inner irritation, no pearl.” – Surya Das
Pearls are wondrous creations. They are the only gemstones in the world that come from a living creature. While the oyster is the most famous pearl producing creature, there are other types that also create pearls and have lustrous shells. These include mussels, abalone, marine snails, and clams. When a foreign substance such as a food particle or a piece of grit slips into the oyster’s shell, the creature protects itself. It does so by secreting a substance known as nacre[1] to encapsulate the irritant. Once the irritant has been covered with enough layers of nacre, it’s like the irritant never existed. And, in that irritants place, a precious gem forms. The process from irritant to gemstone can take anywhere from six months to four years.[2]
“As a pearl is formed and its layers grow, a rich iridescence begins to glow. The oyster has taken what was at first an irritation and intrusion and uses it to enrich its value. How can you coat or frame the changes in your life to harvest beauty, brilliance, and wisdom?” – Susan C. Young
As individuals, we can learn much from the oyster. The oyster, invaded and irritated by a foreign substance could simply have not done anything and died. It opts however, to take action to address its difficult situation. For us, significant life changes often lead to times of difficulty, doubt, and anxiety. This is also a time, an opportunity, for re-balancing and re-creation. Without an irritant, the oyster will not produce the pearl. Without life’s challenges and hardships, we do not grow.
Inspired by this, Surya Das, a Buddhist spiritual and meditation teacher, created what he calls “The Pearl Principle.”[3] Surya explains how challenges and doubts can help produce new perspectives, “Through such difficulties we can learn the necessity and benefits of letting go of your old identity, encrusted with mind-forged manacles like seaweed and barnacles on an old ship’s hull, thus laying the groundwork for a new sense of self and possibilities. I call this The Pearl Principle: no inner irritation, no pearl (gets produced).” This perspective is taken a step further by The Pearl Principle Movement which advocates for the transformation of adversity into a gem of life.
To do so, the movement has created ten tenets[4]:
- Adversity is the catalyst of growth and progress.
- Transformation is the proactive engagement of one’s sphere of influence.
- Every person has inherent gifts that can be used to overcome challenges.
- People can reinvent themselves at will.
- Introspection is the key to unlocking the right core values that guide our discernment for change.
- Self-sufficiency is a philosophy that we can nurture to eradicate mendicant behavior.
- Personal success is only a means to an end: Making the world a better place.
- Success is measured by the number of people whose lives have improved because of our existence.
- Wealth accumulation is only justified when it is re-channeled to uplift the quality of life of communities through purposeful intervention.
- Change begins from within.
For the Pearl Principle Advocate, the tenets become a way of life. Through adversity comes growth, progress, and beauty. We can extend this thinking by considering the following:
“Grapes must be crushed to make wine;
Diamonds form under pressure;
Olives are pressed to release oil; and
Seeds grow in darkness.
Whenever you feel crushed, under pressure, pressed, or in darkness, you’re in a powerful place of transformation.” ― Lalah Delia
When you find yourself challenged and in a difficult place, trust the process and be patient.
[1] What is Nacre? Nature’s Miracle Substance | Pearl Wise
[2] What is a Pearl? – Pearls of Wisdom by The Pearl Source
[3] The Pearl Principle ‹ Lama Surya Das
[4] The Pearl Principle: The 10 Tenets of the Pearl Principle
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